ORAL COMMUINCATION
Communication
is a composite of speaking and listening. Honing skills is both these areas is
absolutely essential if the communicator wishes to impress the receiver. The
initial impact is made by the speaking abilities of the sender. Equally
important is the ability to listen carefully. If the overall effectiveness of
these two components is considered, it would be seen that the ability to listen
rather than to speak fluently impresses more.
The two
activities, viz., speaking and listening, cannot be segregated. Both are
closely intertwined and an overall impact is created if both these skills are
used effectively. Let us use the word “IMPRESS” as an acronym to understand, would
definitely help us to impress the other interactant.
I---- IDEA:
The first
step in the process of communication is to decide on the idea, which needs to
be communicated. There may be a host of
ideas passing through the mid of the sender. Depending on the situation
and the receiver, the idea best suited to the occasion.
M---MESSAGE.
Once the
idea has been selected, its needs to be clothed in a language that is
comprehensible to the receiver. The encoding of the message has to be done
keeping a number of factors in mind. What is the language that is going to be
understood by the receiver? Does the idea
necessarily pertain to the interests of the interests of the receiver? What is
that the receiver actually needs to know? Framing of the message, if done
(keeping answer to these questions in the mind), would definitely make an
impact on the receiver.
P---PAUSE/PARAGRAPHS.
The
significance of pauses cannot be understand. Pause should juxtaposed at just
the right minute so that the receiver
can assimilate the impact of the message. The use of pauses would be best
understand in the context of a presentation. The presenter should, at the time
of making a presentation, use this device suitably. Excessive usage of this can
lead the presentation into being one that is pretty boring and monotonous. The
right use of pauses actually simulates the audience. The impact is often so
great and forceful that the receivers actually lean forward ion their chairs
when the presenter pauses, as if urging him to resume the presentation. The
device, in the course of the interaction, lasts for barely a few second.
However, the impact is long and meaningful. In written communication pauses get
translated into paragraphs. If the decision to use a certain number of
paragraphs is right and the division of points in these paragraphs is also
correct, then written communication becomes meaningful and creates a positive
impression.
R---RECEIVER.
The receiver
is the most important person in the process of communication who could, if he
so desires, also prove to be the most difficult,. He is the one who is
generally led into the interaction. In order to draw his attention , it is
imperative that there be an extra plus that would retain him interest make him
attentive to the ensuring communication. To satisfy this criterion the sender
should address himself to the needs and expectations of the receiver.
Formulating the statements according to a mutually accepted goal is a good way
of proceeding and drawing his attention.
E---EMPATHY.
In
communication empathy should be used to help us understand the other
individual, the strategies that he adopts and the responses that he gives at a
particular moment. It would be worth while to note that all communication is
situation might use the same words but his attention might be totally different.
Gauging the exact meaning of an utterance can only be done when we literally
put ourselves in the shoes of the other person and try to understand the
situation from the perspective of the sender.
Each
individual, as a sender has, what we refer to as, a‘logic bubble’ that enables
him to formulae his message in a particular fashion. The same holds true for
the receiver or the listener. The greater the empathy between them, the higher
the level of understanding and more the receptivity to message and ideas.
Empathy needs to be distinguished from another word, namely “sympathy”. Which
is different in connotation. Sympathy is placing the sender on a higher
pedestal and viewing the order in a sympathetic light.
S---SENDER.
The
communication process hinges on the sender. He initiates the interaction and
comes up with ideas and concepts that he wishes to share with the receiver. His
role is the most crucial. The success or failure of interaction depends on him
and on the strategies he adopts to get his message across by securing the
attention of the receiver. A cautious sender would understand that there is a difference
between the mental frames of the interact ant
. Such a difference could be a result discrepancy in interpretations of
words, perception of reality, and attitudes, opinions and emotions. Message, If
formulated with awareness along with
these areas, is sure to brings success to the sender.
S---SECURITY CHECK.
Effective
communication necessities that the
receiver listens carefully to the utterances of the sender so that the end
results are positive. The primary rule is: never be in a rush to commence
communication. Sufficient time and effort should be put in formulating the
message. Suppose the sender wishes to communicate five points. The sequencing
and necessary substantiation of points with facts and figures should be done
prior to the actual beginning of the communication process. This would build
confidence in the message and eliminate possibility of errors in the
statements.
To sum up,
the sender, in order to impress the receiver should, at he start, have an idea
encoded in the form a message. At the time of encoding, the sender does a thorough
security check to ascertain that all points have been dealt with in a desired
order. The message is then transmitted to the receiver with the required voice
articulations and pauses so as to heighten the impact. Finally, the response of
the receiver should be viewed empathetically. Once all these factors have been
understood, its proves easy to prevail upon the receiver.
There could
, however be moments when in spite of efforts being made to make the
interaction informative and meaningful, all communications links fall apart and
he process ends in a meaningless rumble of words and sounds. This disturbing or
distracting factor is what we refer to as noise. This may be on te part of the
sender or the receiver: it can be voluntary or involuntary.
0 comments:
Post a Comment
Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.